Pathways of Grieving

I’ve learned a lot about grief in the last 5 years.  My husband died suddenly and unexpectedly, in a church parking lot, late afternoon of a beautiful spring day, the sun setting beneath the trees.  He had been playing the organ for mass only minutes earlier.  I still remember feeling the gentle breeze as I sat next to his body, praying the Hail Mary. 

 

My world was pulled out from under me so suddenly and without warning, I was in shock for the first 2 years. 

 

After passing through the dark night of the soul, slowly, slowly, I made my way to the surface….

 

I read so many books on grief, received help from an amazing grief counselor and two beloved spiritual mentors, practiced daily meditation, attended a life-changing retreat (the Path of Love), journeyed on the spiritual path, took sannyas (dedication to the spiritual path) and the spiritual name Ma Prem Amal.  I re-learned how to live in this world, with half of me missing. 

 

My journey has culminated in the completion of a Grief Educator Certification training, taught by leading expert on death and grieving, David Kessler (see grief.com).   My hope is to now support others on their grief journey, especially women who have lost a spouse or life partner, helping them to ease their suffering and to find their way.   

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Modern culture does not give space for grief.  The enormity of loss is often glossed over.  However, grief lasts as long as love lasts.  We learn to integrate the grief, each in our own unique way, and then we heal.

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Disclaimer:   I am not a licensed counselor.  I am not a medical doctor and do not practice medicine.  I do not diagnose, cure, heal, or treat disease or otherwise prescribe medication.  My services do not substitute for the diagnosis and/or treatment of illnesses, injuries, or other medical or psychological conditions by a physician or other appropriate licensed health care provider.  For such issues, you should seek a proper licensed physician or healthcare professional.